She Rejected His Marriage Proposal Because He Earns “Just” N180K per Month

A Nigerian guy and forum user, Duchez, took to media to share how and why his friend’s

girlfriend rejected a marriage proposal.

Here is the post..

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My friend just shared his story with me. I have advised him but I need your thoughts.
He met a lady around March this year and they became friends. He is an Accountant and works with a Federal Government Agency in Abuja. Along the line he asked her out and she insisted he finishes his ICAN before they can start dating.
Long story short, she later accepted to date him. Probably because he passed all but one of the exams in the Professional stage of ICAN. He recently invested some huge sum of money into a biz deal. He told me it was actually all of his savings and he would become a multi millionaire if the deal works out.
He decided to test this lady to find out if she will stick with him if the going ever gets tough (as a result of our insistence that the lady isn’t really into him). And so he told her that the deal he was working on had failed and that he has become broke. He said he will like to marry her and try to sustain themselves on his current salary of about 180k pending when things become better but she replied that she can’t marry someone who is earning 180k monthly.
She feels it would make her drop from her standard of living as she wants to live inside the city of Abuja and not in the outskirts like Karu or Kubwa. Mind you, her parents live in one of these places and the guy is not even thinking of living in anywhere beyond these places like Nyanya/Mararaba.
This guy loves this girl so bad and is a very hardworking guy. He is hoping to get promoted when he completes his ICAN and is even looking at getting a better job in a bigger Government Agency or a Multinational company. He is so distraught at what the lady said. We have advised him to forget about her and move on, but he is considering opening up to the lady that what he said about the deal was just a test in the hope to make her re-consider him.
Please, were we wrong with our advice? Meanwhile, this guy’s ex loves him like there is no tomorrow and she will gladly marry him even if he was earning 30k monthly but due to family pressure on him to marry a graduate and an Igbo lady, he broke up with her. Me thinks he can still persuade his parents to accept the lady.
If you were in our shoes, will you advice your friend differently?
Thanks for your comments. The lady earns around 180k but she mentioned that she spends around 300k when going shopping and she is scared she would no longer be able to do that if she marries him as she would have to contribute almost all her salary to maintaining the family.
source: gst
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4 thoughts on “She Rejected His Marriage Proposal Because He Earns “Just” N180K per Month

  1. Thank you for sharing the story. You did well by advising your friend. He should be wise to know at this stage that his present heart throb his not for him. She loves his wealth n status n not his person.

    She should run back to his ex who according to you loves him like mad. Marriage survives on love. He should not buy into the idea of his parents or siblings to marry an Igbo girl. He should go for love and be happy for the remaining days of his life,….

  2. Dear, you have perfectly advised. You that is in it, pls run! run!! run!!! for your life.
    If she want to marry your bank account, let her marry world Bank as your bank account will never be enough for her expenses.

  3. Dear, You have perfectly advised as friend. You that is in it. Pls run! run!! run!!! for your life. If she want to marry your bank account, let her look for world Bank and marry as your bank account will never be enough for her expenses.

  4. God had already showed him how the future will be with this present lady. If he is wise, let him take heed and let her go. About his ex love, if he feel secured with her, let him pray to God to touch his parents mind so that they can also see what he is ‘seeing’ in that lady ( his ex love).

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